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Post by sascrotch on Dec 29, 2009 1:32:54 GMT -5
Following the recent trend of threads that actually stay on topic, here's one to talk about all that serious stuff we like to call real life. Prozac not included, so suck it up, soft-ass.
Ok, here's what's going on with me. Just when I think I honestly don't care about her anymore, Christine springs some kind of life-altering news on me and brings me back down to earth. First it was when she got engaged, then married, and now she's pregnant.
To make matters worse, her and Will have been fighting almost constantly the past month or so. Yesterday when I took her brother Dillon home, she said that she only laughed when I was around. And she wants me to be the kid's godfather. I've bitten my tongue on the whole Will situation, knowing it's best not to get involved in any way. But, damnit, things just can't seem to ever be simple.
I don't know what I'm expecting out of you guys, if anything. I just thought I'd share. Maybe I at least needed an outlet, besides poetry I mean. Anyway, if you have thoughts on the matter, feel free to spill.
Later
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Post by Viking Dong on Dec 29, 2009 17:44:41 GMT -5
That's gotta be a really tough and awkward place to be in... I really don't know what I'd do, honestly. If I were in your shoes, I'd prolly accept being the godfather.... and then leave it at that. Just when I think I honestly don't care about her anymore You see that zone, right there? Stay in it, man. I guess that's kinda blunt, but the bridge was burned, don't reconstruct it.
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Post by Conan Dong on Dec 31, 2009 12:56:13 GMT -5
Last time you quit college. I don't even want to know what could happen this time around. It'll start out as friendship but you know as well as we do what lies down that road. Turn the car around and get on with your life. It might be hard to hear but maybe you shouldn't hang out with Dillon if being friends with him puts you in proximity to this crap.
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Post by ceasarshlong on Jan 1, 2010 16:21:48 GMT -5
Hmmm to be honest, i'd have to agree with the guys. She is married and having his kid, not yours. Being the godfather would make you feel obligated to be around more. When your around her old feelings seem to pop out for you and aparently her too. But you can never know if her feelings are real or lust of something she knows is wrong. She probably doesn't know either.
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Post by Viking Dong on Jan 1, 2010 16:35:39 GMT -5
^ They speak words of profound wisdom, Sass.
Whether you follow them is up to you, though, I reckon..........
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Post by ceasarshlong on Jan 1, 2010 16:39:13 GMT -5
Jims right its your decision on what you do. As a friend i've got your back and will support you in whatever you choose.
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Post by sascrotch on Jan 2, 2010 13:04:28 GMT -5
Well, luckily being friends with Dillon doesn't always come to me being around her. I usually do everything I can to avoid actually going to their house, but sometimes it can't be helped. I have no doubt that I need to move forward in my life and honestly, looking back, I could be the one in that situation with her and not Will. I thank God that it didn't turn out like that.
I've got my life to live now. She's got hers. She made her decision and now I need to finalize mine.
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Post by Viking Dong on Jan 3, 2010 0:32:41 GMT -5
Amen, brotha!
*Rises a hypothetical pint in yer honour*
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Post by sascrotch on Jan 3, 2010 0:35:17 GMT -5
Okay, well that sorts out my problems for the time being. Anybody else?
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Post by Viking Dong on Jan 3, 2010 1:36:34 GMT -5
I have a severe initiative problem. I'm tired of being single, tired of having to rely on other people for rides, tired of having no money, and tired of basically being stuck in the house and having no life because the afore-mentioned reasons.
I could cure all this but goddammit, I just can't find the will or the inspiration/motivation to make it so. But I can't sit on my ass forever, either. Now, I don't lack confidence - just initiative, there's a big difference.
I guess I'm just looking for a catalyst or divine intervention or something to get me moving, I dunno. It's stupid, it really is, but for whatever reason I am completely apathetic to bettering myself. All it takes really is me going to an eye doctor, then getting my license, then a haircut, then a job, and then I'd be set. Once I take the first steps I oughta be good... but fuck me in the foot if it isn't easier said than done.
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Post by sascrotch on Jan 3, 2010 1:51:58 GMT -5
I can relate. I pretty much lack initiative too, though probably not to the same degree. Even with parents riding me it's hard to give a shit about stuff I'm none too interested in. The key is taking that first step. Once that's over, each new step becomes easier and easier. Glasses or contacts will help you get a job which will help you get a gf. Once things start to fall into place it all seems to roll from there.
At least that's what everyone tells me.
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Post by Viking Dong on Jan 3, 2010 1:56:43 GMT -5
Yup yup... and I definitely need to organized by no later than midterm of this semester. I do NOT wanna be on campus with 6 hours of free time every day again..... no fun at all. There's only so much you can do on the interwebs, and I never really have much homework to speak of, and I doubt this semester will be any different.
Here's to kicking life in the ass and getting something done! *Another hypothetical pint*
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Post by sascrotch on Jan 3, 2010 2:01:54 GMT -5
Amen to that!
And maybe someone with a job and gf (THor) could give you some advice
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Post by Conan Dong on Jan 3, 2010 23:52:06 GMT -5
Well, I can't speak for Thor but as a former practitioner of employment and girlfriendedness I can tell you that the good things won't come to you. And the things that do come your way will not be pleasant down the road.
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Post by Viking Dong on Jan 8, 2010 1:03:50 GMT -5
So basically life's a bitch.
Oh well. May as well drink and be merry, etc. etc.
And fog it up.
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